Tuesday, March 17, 2020

Trust Him to Take Care of You


Matthew 6:26NLT; Look at the birds. They don’t plant or harvest or store food in barns, for your heavenly Father feeds them.  And aren’t you far more valuable to him than they are?


There’s a world of tension and stress for many Christians surrounding our wants and needs because for many Christians, nothing seems to change, year after year without seeing the kind of results you expect.  It’s a challenge to hear the truth about who we are and then make the changes to become better.  Simply because we are so wrapped up in our earthly selves that pleasing God becomes the furthest thing on our mind. 


God tells us to trust him, and I guarantee you that most Christians have difficulty trusting in something or someone they cannot see.  Do you believe you are worthy and lovable? God says you are.  This is a question we sometimes have to ask ourselves when our behavior speaks otherwise.  Will we trust God, will we trust in His power and in His way?  Our Heavenly Father challenges us to shift our focus off of what we don’t have and consider what He has already blessed us with.  Not that any of us Christians want to be disappointed, but it’s more comfortable to trust what we know than to reach out on faith for the unknown.


Will God really bless me with a good man?  This is what doubting God sounds like in our minds.  If a good man comes along it must mean that it was by chance.  When in truth, God has the ability to cause anybody to find you.  God has the ability to cause all of your financial crisis and instability to fade away.  But it must require us to seek Him first in all that we do, instead of seeking the dollar bill, or our jobs, or even a man, to do all that we need.


Many Christians have a war within themselves on trusting God and His word.  We just have to remember Jesus Christ told us not to worry about a thing – He’s got us! And I know this is still very hard for many of us, no matter how many times we read this verse or here it said. When it comes down to it you will have to make a decision, which one will you be most devoted to.

We still have to remember, God and His word never changes, it’s us that changes.  Jesus Christ would say to us…” Don’t worry if you’re going to be single for the rest of your life – don’t worry about your health, don’t worry about your life!” 


We bring God down to our level without us even realizing it. The truth of the matter is that God can make a rock praise Him, that’s just how little our circumstances really are because there is absolutely nothing that is impossible for God to do or solve in our lives.  The bottom line of what our Lord Jesus Christ tells us to do in Matthew is to seek God’s Kingdom first, and God will take care of it all.  We have to evaluate our attitudes that we bring before God’s throne.


Our Lord and Savior says that he will meet all of our needs according to His riches in Glory.  The problem we face continually is our riches are devoted in the world’s system. If we go without we worry, if we need food we worry, if we lose our job we worry but the citizens of Heaven don’t suppose to do this. Single women worry that they won’t ever get married – they worry will God ever bless them with someone to love them enough that will want to spend the rest of their lives with them.  Not to worry – as Jesus Christ asked the question “Aren’t you far more valuable to God.”

Tuesday, March 10, 2020

Don’t Turn Away from Me

Psalm 144: 7; Come quickly, Lord, and answer me, for my depression deepens.  Don’t turn away from me, or I will die.  8; Let me hear of our unfailing love each morning, for I am trusting you.  Show me where to walk, for I give myself to you. 9; Rescue me from my enemies, Lord; I run to you to hide me. 10; Teach me to do your will, for you are my God.

When you need a rescue, it’s a now or never kind of urgency.  The opportunity to make the choice is ours to make and our Heavenly Father has left the door open for us to walk through it.  Whether we realize it or not, there will soon come a time where we will have to make a decision to either love the Lord, or love the world.

The choice to run to Him is completely ours with absolutely no pressure, and as times continue to become more and more perilous, we will need to have every assurance that we have a refuge in God.  When tribulation paints the opposite picture of the verse in Psalms, Christians that suffer from the pressures of life, will feel likely succumb to what’s comfortable and go the opposite direction of God’s love.  But this should be the very last thing we should ever think to do.


Being on this Christian journey affords you the opportunity to see and experience tribulation up close and personal.  Tribulation presses you to draw closer to God but it’s in the struggle that you see God’s love stronger, for it says in 2 Corinthians 12:8; My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.  Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

The apostle Paul was able to boast in his weakness because this is when God was glorified, through him.  Paul was going through some horrible times and he had many enemies, so much so, that he prayed often for God to remove the “thorns in his flesh”, but God knew that Paul needed to lean on Him and not be so concerned about the people that wanted to see him suffer.

There may be some of you that probably have encountered folks who would like nothing more than to see you suffer. But as the elders in my church would say, “With God on your side, you can never fail”.  When we don’t trust God through our tough times, we separate ourselves from God through a lack of faith in His love for us. Doubt is one of our biggest enemies and a lot of times, many Christians are not thinking about the love of God, they’re thinking about getting rest from the harshness that the toils of life bring in our every-day life.

God tells us we don’t ever have to be unhappy, sad or depressed if we would only come to him with all of our stuff. Jesus Christ said anytime we have fears, worries or tumultuous situations, to leave it with him.  God wants us to get it in our core that we are powerful individuals, life doesn’t have to beat us down in order for us to get this truth, but some of the most seasoned

Christians have a difficult time surrendering and letting go and allowing God to handle their problems.  Just as pain is a calling card for change, so is the revelation that we can't be afraid to do the grunt work on the inside of us in order to live the victorious life that our Lord and Savior died on the cross for us to live.

Tuesday, March 3, 2020

God Will Fix It!



Isaiah 55:6-7(NLT)
“Seek the LORD while you can find him. Call on him now while he is near. Let the wicked change their ways and banish the very thought of doing wrong. Let them turn to the LORD that he may have mercy on them. Yes, turn to our God, for he will forgive generously.”


No one would argue that a broken heart is a very difficult kind of pain to overcome. When our physical bodies ache, the first thing on our minds is to grab something to soothe the pain—something that will make us feel better as quickly as possible. It’s a little different with a broken heart. Some people panic when that first wave of fall-out emotions hits their consciousness. It’s a shocker if you’ve never experienced it before, and even though there are stages that ultimately lead to healing, the initial shock sends many of us bolting to the next person. We think they will take the heartache away, or at least help num the pain.

Personally, I was so repelled by the pain that hearing about meeting another man was the last thing on my mind. For a good long while, I avoided relationships like the plague. I knew I couldn’t remain in my silo of solitude forever, but I was nervous about meeting someone new. The thought of having to take a chance with my heart being broken again was too much for my mind to conceive.

As I was licking my wounds from a terribly hurtful breakup, of course I dove into God’s Word for comfort. There’s nothing like the healing that comes from the scriptures. Hebrews 4:12 (NLT) says, “For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires.” God's Word is alive. It is the bread of life! As we read the Word of God, His Spirit does a work on the inside of us, and through the Word, the Lord helps us in ways we cannot begin to quantify.

Back in the day, at the tender age of fourteen, I learned that my high-school crush didn’t feel the same way about me as I did about him. My heart was broken into a thousand little pieces, and I cried for weeks. My grandmother had no patience for theatrics, but she could see that I was hurting really bad. One day she said to me, “leave it in God’s Hands, baby; He’ll fix it.” Her words soothed my heart and soul because I knew that she was speaking from experience. God had done for her what she knew He’d do for me.

God’s love is the only lasting remedy for pain. He tells us through the prophet, Isaiah, to seek Him while He can be found. He never hides from us, but often we hide from Him. We bury ourselves in the pain and distance ourselves from His healing. We do this through our unbelief. For whatever reasons, a broken heart causes us to think that our pain is greater than God's love, and this can never be true. We can call on the Lord at any time, and He will rescue us, but we must trust in Him. Psalm 147:3 tells us that He heals the brokenhearted and He binds up their wounds. If we will continue to pray, and if we remember that healing is a process the Lord will walk us through, we’ll see that the Lord will fix it, because He causes everything to work together for our good.■


Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

 “God Will Fix It”, written by Kim for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2020. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, February 25, 2020

He Comforts Us in Our Troubles


2 Corinthians 1:3-5(NLT)
“3 All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. 4 He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. 5 For the more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ.”

Everyone has troubles – and I’m sure you can name a few off the top of your head. We all need help, advice or comfort at some point. God is merciful in our times of trouble, and because of His amazing grace, we can comfort and uplift others.

God has given us the authority through His love to be able to pour out love and kindness to other people. It is especially meaningful to be a conduit of His love towards those that are enduring a troubling season in their lives. Take the Apostle Paul’s example for instance. He understood that his mission was to follow the example of Jesus Christ and to instruct the church in righteousness, but Paul had a past. Before his Road to Damascus experience, he actually persecuted Christians. He faced what many of us face today, in that people who knew his past tried to use it to hold him back. 

The church at Corinth had a lot of problems. They hadn’t renewed their minds to God’s Word in important areas of the faith. Division among them crept in. Following his call by the Lord Jesus Christ to guide the church in righteousness and Godliness, Paul wrote the Corinthians an epistle under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit. It was sent to sternly correct them. Some changed their ways after receiving this correction, but others strongly turned against him. Some even said that he was not a real Apostle of Jesus Christ.

There can be no question that Paul suffered persecution and endured things many of us living today couldn’t endure. As he wrote the Second Epistle of Corinthians under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, Paul knew and had experienced the comfort of God through tribulation personally, and this is one of the reasons he was able to offer this same comfort to other believers. Paul knew God’s power, and this gave him the confidence to minister, serve, and help others. We are not sufficient in and of ourselves. Paul wrote in 2Corinthians 3:5 that our sufficiency comes from God. Our Heavenly Father empowers us through His tremendous love, and this very same love gives us the strength to encourage, comfort, and help others.

It’s no question that all of us will go through seasons in our lives when we endure pain and suffering. Like Paul, we all make poor judgements and bad choices. Many of us start out with a healthy appetite for living God’s way, but we will sometimes allow relationships with a significant person to throw us off the path. By the third or fourth month of dating, self-control goes straight out of the window. This is the condition many Christians find themselves in. They succumb to the pressures of life and the flesh; they give themselves over to sinful behavior. I’ve heard many of my single Christian friends say how much they regret actions like these, because their sinful actions caused so many problems, and my friends wished they had been more patient while dating. 

Our God will make sure that we never lose out when we patiently endure, no matter how challenging things may seem. He will reward us for living His way and by following the example of Jesus Christ. Paul knew this. He had experienced the power, grace, and mercy of God continually. Paul had a problem that was so troublesome to him that he called this problem a throne in his flesh. He prayed to God about it, and God told him in 2Corinthians 12:8 (NLT), “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.”

God knows we’re going to make mistakes, but He never stops loving us; therefore, we must not allow our mistakes to keep us from loving and helping others. We’ve got work to do, and we shouldn’t let anything keep us from being a blessing to the Lord’s people. God told Paul to lean on His grace, and this is precisely what we must do. God’s power works best in weakness. We must remember this no matter what we’re going through, no matter how much we are tested. Things can become bad very quickly, but tribulation should press us to draw closer to God because we have no other help but Him. We must lean on Him and remember that it’s in the struggle that we’ll see the overwhelming strength and power of God’s love.

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“He Comforts Us in Our Troubles”, written by Kim for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2020. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, February 18, 2020

With God’s Love, You Have All You Need

It’s time to take a serious look at your life.  Lessons that are
constantly on repeat will continue to reveal what you need to change or let go. 

Breaking up with someone that you care a lot about is very hard to do. Whether you’ve been together six-months or six years, letting go is not something that comes naturally to most of us. We live in a world that encourages us to cling to what is comfortable and easy—and this includes relationships, even when we know in our hearts that they’re not good for us. “Moving on” is a process, and many of us have yet to learn it, but it is incredibly important that we do. Life is a very dynamic entity, and it doesn’t just do away with lessons simply because we refuse to learn them. All of us must open our eyes and recognize when we’ve made decisions that were unwise. Owning our mistakes and learning from them isn’t a downer; it’s one of life’s rewards, because it allows God the room to bless us even more. 


A friend shared how devastated she was after recently coming out of a long-term relationship with her boyfriend. They’d been together for a couple of years, and she said to me, “If I could only make this pain go away.”  I could sympathize, remembering saying those exact words once myself. A broken heart can make us go through all kinds of emotional pain, but sometimes it isn’t so much about losing the person that has betrayed, abandoned, or mistreated us. It’s about the fear we have of being alone, of not feeling as though we can depend on something that we’ve grown accustomed to. Whether we realize it or not, this fear is the thing that is causing misery, not a broken heart. The fear is the thing that keeps us spiritually immature. It can paralyze our lives if we don’t take authority through the Lord Jesus Christ, so we can begin to walk in the liberty he extends.
God designed life in such a way that learning to surrender is a spiritual lesson all of us must learn. Jesus Christ teaches by way of an invitation in Matthew 11:28-30(NIV). In this passage, he says, “28 Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” This is packed with so much good stuff that it must be read repeatedly throughout our lives. We need to keep going back to chew on it some more, and we’ll come away with a brand-new beautiful revelation of the beauty and love of Christ every time.

Jesus Christ is our burden-bearer. We do not have to carry the struggles of life upon ourselves, because we don’t have the strength to do it. Moses and God’s people sang in Exodus 15:2(NIV), “The LORD is my strength and my defense; he has become my salvation. He is my God, and I will praise him, my father's God, and I will exalt him.” We are here on this earth to build our relationship with God through the Lord Jesus Christ. Life was not intended to be lived through anyone other than our wonderful Redeemer and Savior. We can’t allow our dependence or comfortability to become an idol that we worship and serve.  

We must open our eyes when we’re doing this, when we’re trying to cling to a person because we feel our lives will not be good without them. This is a lie that the devil wants us to believe, so that he can continue to steal our authority and dominion. We must not allow it to happen. We must surrender our discomfort and dependency issues to Jesus, because he will break every chain of bondage in our lives.

Isaiah 26:3 says that God will keep in perfect peace everyone whose minds are stayed on Him, because they trust in Him. Having God’s peace, allowing it to saturate your heart—this is where you want to get to. The way to get there is to focus your mind on the Lord Jesus Christ and continue to keep this focus. He’s our source of strength, and he will give us rest for our souls, but we can’t forget the instruction he gave us in Matthew 11:29. He said we must learn about him by studying God’s Word. The Bible is a living Word, and when we take it into our minds and hearts, it feeds us. This is the food we are truly looking for. We are tricked into believing a person can feed our souls, but it is the living Word of God that we are truly hungering after.

Don’t continue to allow the vital nutrients of joy, peace, and enthusiasm to be continually sucked from your life. Do yourself the greatest favor and feast on God and His Word. Now is the time to press into Him. Pray that He will help you surrender every piece of emotional baggage that hinders your relationship with Him, because if it hurts your relationship with God, then it is hurting you. Understand that when you have God, you will always have more than enough. So, be confident that He loves You, and with His love, you have all you need.


New International Version (NIV)

Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV® Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.
“With God’s Love, You Have All You Need”, written by Kim for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2020. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, February 11, 2020

Regain Your Balance


“For the Kingdom of God is not just a lot of talk; it is living by God’s power.” 1Corinthians 4:20(NLT)

Costly mistakes should cause us to ask, “What am I doing wrong? Could it have been sinful thoughts and behaviors over a long period of time or is it my pride that blinds me?”
My friend Miranda was the kind of woman that never sat anywhere for long. She was constantly on the move, and her kids were accustomed to their mother’s whimsical and impetuous behavior; it was all they knew. You could call Miranda on a Wednesday morning to say ‘hello’, and out of the blue, she’d be on a train to New York, taking her daughter for modeling classes. The two-and-a-half-hour train ride and taking her daughter out of school for the day, we’re not even a consideration. To her friends, these spur-of-the-moment decisions were both adventurous and sometimes frivolous, but this was Miranda’s pattern. She’d go full force on a whim, and never considered the reality that sooner or later, there would be a cost that had to be paid. 
It’s one thing to live carefree, it’s a completely different story to have the wisdom to make good and wise choices. Godly wisdom makes all the difference. God tells us in Proverbs 4:7 that wisdom is the principal thing, and we should get it and also get a good understanding of how to apply that wisdom. When a person lives their life and seldom consult God about their choices and decisions, mistakes are inevitable, and sometimes these mistakes lead to devastating circumstances. 
When a person makes a big mistake, many believers refer to it as a fall from grace. It shows up in the form of a failed marriage or important relationship, a lost job or home, and it can even drive some people to other addictive behaviors. Mistakes that lead to great loss will indicate that our lives are off balance. We’re not trusting God and inviting Him to lead, guide, and direct our lives, and we will never be on solid footing without standing on the solid foundation of Christ. The awesome truth about God and His love is that He will always help us turn this around.
Heavenly Father doesn’t want us to live boring or unfulfilling lives. Jesus Christ told his disciples in John 16:24(NKJV), “Until now you have asked nothing in My name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full.” This is what God wants for all of us. He wants our joy to be full, and this is why He has given us His Word and placed His Spirit inside us; so that we can navigate beautifully through the rocky terrain of life. If we don’t use His wisdom, we can’t do this. 
Proverbs 14:1(NLT) tells us, “A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.” This isn’t what we want to do. We should desire to model good judgement to our children. Through our example, they should learn to balance joy and fulfillment with the discipline of obedience to God. If we seek God first in all that we do, we save ourselves from costly mistakes. So, let’s stay on the path of righteousness by following the example of Jesus Christ. When we do this, and stay humble before the Lord, he will help us make good choices and make sure we receive all the rewards that come with them.
Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
Scripture quotations marked (NKJV) are taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
“Regain Your Balance ”, written by Kim for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2020. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, February 4, 2020

Keep God Front and Center

‘Do what you want to do, feel the excitement of life to the fullest, but remember to always be true to yourself.’ You’ve probably heard similar expressions or even know people who will only follow their own rules in life.  This kind of mind-set is not new and it’s certainly not new to God.

If ever there was someone born with a proverbial silver spoon in their mouths, it was King Solomon. He is said to be the wisest person ever to have lived, and his wealth was equally vast. As with most wise individuals, Solomon hungered for more wisdom, and made a study of everything to do with pleasures, business, and happiness. In the Old Testament, God’s Word tells us much about Solomon’s views on life, both the joy and the sadness of it. 
Like many of us, he was looking to define the meaningfulness of existence, and sometimes he had a pessimistic view, even finding life to be very empty at times. If we’re honest we’d have to admit that many of us feel this way sometimes ourselves. We take one step forward and something happens to knock us two steps back. A person might start to feel like “What’s the use…I try and try, and still can’t make this thing work.” 
We must keep in mind that King Solomon spent his entire life exploring, experiencing, and analyzing everything the world had to offer. He’d done it all and had studied just about everything that could be studied. He showed us that when you step outside of God’s purpose, and you try to find meaning outside of pleasing Him, you are going to meet with misery at every level. Colossians 2:7(NLT) tells us, “Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives be built on him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness.” Instead of endeavoring to grow in our relationship with God, many of us look to sink our roots in people, situations, or in our own personal agendas. God commands us to let our roots grow down into Christ. He’s the firm foundation on which we can build a great life. 
Without God, people merely exist, moving from one experience to another. This isn’t what God wants. He wants us to have a rich and satisfying life, and He tells us in His Word to start out laying the foundation in our youth. His wisdom to young people is spoken through Solomon in Ecclesiastes 12:1,6(NLT). It tells us, “1 Don’t let the excitement of youth cause you to forget your Creator. Honor him in your youth before you grow old and say, “Life is not pleasant anymore. 6 Yes, remember your Creator now while you are young, before the silver cord of life snaps and the golden bowl is broken. Don’t wait until the water jar is smashed at the spring and the pulley is broken at the well.” It was prevalent in Solomon’s day, thousands of years ago, for young folks to party and live frivolously, doing whatever pleasured them. They had no thought of how this would impact their lives as they grew older. This attitude and behavior is just as prevalent today. 
After spending their youth under the influence of the devil, I know several men and women who waited and came to the Lord when the vigor and flexibility of their youth had faded. They could have done so much for the Kingdom, but chose not to, and now decide to give the scraps that life has left them in service to God. He deserves so much better, and we should always strive to give Him our absolute best. If only the people who waited had realized this in their early years, they would have discovered that with God, we can enjoy every moment of life. He makes it possible for us to have fulfilling relationships and a meaningful existence, but we must have a heart to honor and please Him. We must keep Him first in all things. 
In Ecclesiastes 12:13-14(NLT), Solomon writes, “That’s the whole story. Here now is my final conclusion: Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone’s duty. God will judge us for everything we do, including every secret thing, whether good or bad.” We must keep God at the front and center of everything. Obedience to Him is non-negotiable, and He will always reward us for our commitment to walk in the example of Christ. If you don’t know the Word of God as well as you should, and you want a closer relationship with Him, know that He wants the same thing. Now is the time to get your heart and mind rooted in Him through the Lord Jesus Christ, and He will help you every step of the way.
Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
“Keep God Front and Center”, written by Kim for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2020. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Take It Easy, God Has It Covered

Jesus Christ said in John 16:33 (NLT), “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials...