Showing posts with label Developing Spiritual Character. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Developing Spiritual Character. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 9, 2025

Take It Easy, God Has It Covered

Jesus Christ said in John 16:33 (NLT), “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” Our Lord didn’t sugarcoat it. He told the truth about the world we live in—broken, messy, full of trials. But in the same breath, He gave us comfort: through His blood on the cross and His resurrection power, He overcame it all. Because of what Christ has done, we can rest in His care and hand Him every single burden. When it comes to the weight of this life, we don’t have to carry it alone—God covered it all through His powerful and precious Son, Jesus Christ.

Many of us are nervous and unsettled about what’s happening around us. The unrest, the confusion—it’s everywhere. And if you’re unmarried, it can stir up an even deeper longing for someone to lean on. When you don’t have a spouse or partner, life’s pressure can feel too heavy for one set of shoulders. But here’s the truth: God knows your heart. He knows the emotions you battle, the thoughts you fight, and the fears that come at you wave after wave. And He has not left you alone. He is calling you to anchor your trust in Him—firmly, securely—through Christ, not through anyone else.

Jesus also taught us something powerful about prayer in Matthew 6:7–8 (NLT): “When you pray, don’t babble on and on as people of other religions do. They think their prayers are answered merely by repeating their words again and again. Don’t be like them, for your Father knows exactly what you need even before you ask him!” God isn’t looking for rehearsed, empty words. He’s looking at your heart. He already knows your needs—He just wants your trust.

In 2 Chronicles 16:9 (NIV), Hanani told King Asa, “For the eyes of the LORD range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him.” Think about that for a moment—God is actively searching, scanning the earth, looking for hearts He can strengthen. He’s not watching to condemn you or catch you slipping; He’s watching to come alongside you, to pour His strength into your weakness.

This is why the way we handle fear, worry, and stress matters. It’s not that God expects us to be unshakable on our own—He knows we’re human—but our response shows whether our trust is in Him or in ourselves. And He wants our trust to be anchored deep in His faithfulness.

Philippians 4:6 (NLT) gives us the key: “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.” Worry doesn’t change anything, but prayer does. Prayer shifts the weight from our shoulders to His. And thanksgiving reminds us that God has already been faithful—and He still is.

Nothing happening today has caught Him off guard. He already saw it coming, and He already made provision for it. That’s why our responsibility as His children is simple but powerful: stay ready in prayer. Instant in prayer. Steady in prayer. Thankful in prayer.

Even when you don’t see the blessing with your natural eyes yet, you can still lift your hands in thanks. Why? Because in the spiritual realm, it already exists. It’s already yours. Faith is what pulls it from the unseen into the seen.

At the end of the day, it all points back to Jesus. He said, “Take heart, because I have overcome the world” (John 16:33 NLT). That means every trial, every sorrow, every uncertainty is already under His feet.

And while He carries your life, He calls you to carry others in prayer. “Pray for all people… intercede on their behalf” (1 Timothy 2:1 NLT). When you lift others up, you are putting God’s will above your own. And when you take care of His business, you can be sure He’s already taking care of yours.

So take heart. Take it easy—not because life is light, but because Christ is Lord. Rest your burdens in His hands. Pray with confidence. Walk with hope. And remember: the One who overcame the world is the same One who covers you today. ■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“Take It Easy, God Has It Covered”, written by Kim for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2025. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, September 2, 2025

How to Surrender

 



Surrender is the Ultimate Act of Faith

Surrender is faith in action. It’s more than a nice idea that sounds pious and devout; it’s the lived-out moment when our human strength finally admits its limits. It’s the point where striving runs out of gas, where our self-made plans collapse under their own weight, and where pride is forced to bow low. Surrender is when we stop pretending we can carry it all, fix it all, and control it all, and instead turn to the only One who actually can. It’s not about defeat—it’s about trust. It’s saying, “God, I know I can’t, but I believe You can. So I’m placing this in Your hands.” That’s where real faith shows up—not in lip service, but in laying it down.

It’s the moment we recognize:

  • I can’t control this situation.
  • I can’t fix this wound on my own.
  • I can’t carry this weight any longer.

That kind of surrender isn’t weakness—it’s strength. It’s trust in its purest form.

The Holy Spirit already sees it all—our thoughts, our emotions, our actions. He knows exactly where the pain is, but He doesn’t force Himself on us. He waits for us to invite Him in. That’s the key: our cooperation. Healing comes when we willingly partner with His work in us.

How Do We Surrender?

Surrender isn’t just a vague, spiritual-sounding word. It has a rhythm, a process that the Spirit gently walks us through. I believe it often unfolds like this:

1. Acknowledgement – Bringing it into the light

You can’t surrender what you won’t admit. This step is all about honesty before God. It’s letting the Holy Spirit shine His light into the places we’d rather keep hidden—the control issues, the simmering anger, the bitterness, the fear, the despair. Sometimes we’ve lived with these things so long, we don’t even realize how much they’ve been running the show in our soul. But once His light exposes them, we can finally see the truth: those attitudes aren’t helping us, they’re hurting us—and the people around us.

Acknowledgement softens the heart. Where selfishness has smothered love, God uncovers it. Where despair has drained joy, He points it out. Where anxiety has stolen peace, He holds it up before us. And the goal isn’t to shame us—it’s to make us aware. Because once we can name what’s there, we can bring it before Him. That’s why David prayed with such openness:

“Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.”
(Psalm 139:23–24, NLT)

2. Repentance – Turning from the old way

Repentance is often misunderstood. It’s not just about saying, “I’m sorry.” It’s a deeper shift—a change of heart, a change of mind, a change of direction. It’s that moment when we stop clinging to our own way of handling things and finally let God reshape us from the inside out.

Repentance is also about trading lies for truth. Where the enemy whispers, “You’ll never be enough,” repentance declares, “That’s a lie—God says I am chosen, loved, and complete in Christ.” It’s when we stop giving power to the false stories we’ve believed and start standing on God’s Word instead.

This step realigns our soul with the reality of God’s Kingdom:
From selfishness to Love.
From despair to Joy.
From anxiety to Peace.

Paul explained it like this:

“…let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you…” (Romans 12:2, NLT)

3. Acceptance – Receiving God’s love and living in gratitude

Once we’ve acknowledged and repented, there’s still another step: acceptance. Too often, we stop short right here. We confess, we turn away from the old, but we never actually open our hearts wide enough to let God’s love rush in and fill those empty spaces.

Acceptance is about receiving what He freely offers—His love, His forgiveness, His healing. It’s deciding to believe that what Christ has done is truly enough for us. And it’s not just about feeling loved—it’s about living from that love every day.

Acceptance shows up in gratitude. It’s when we stop bracing ourselves for rejection and start walking as children who are fully welcomed by their Father. It’s when we choose to rest instead of striving, to trust instead of worrying, to live out of abundance instead of lack.

This is where surrender becomes transformation. Because it’s one thing to let go of control—but it’s another to actually receive the peace, joy, and love He longs to pour into our lives.

“…the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace…” (Galatians 5:22, NLT)

The Exchange of Surrender

Surrender always leads to an exchange. We hand over control, pain, or despair, and in return, the Spirit places love, joy, and peace in our hearts. It's like Spring--what was frozen begins to thaw, what was dead starts to bloom, and what was heavy finally gives way to new life.

And make no mistake: surrender isn’t just a one-time event—it’s a lifestyle. Every day, every situation, every hidden part of our heart is another opportunity to lay it down. And every time we do, God plants something new and fruitful in its place.

A Simple Prayer of Surrender

Dear Father God,

I give You access to the places I’ve been holding back. Through Your Holy Spirit, show me what needs to be surrendered. I repent for trusting in my own way, and I receive Your love in this place. Grow in me love, joy, and peace, so I can walk in the freedom You intended.

In the powerful name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen.

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“How to Surrender ” written for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2025. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

Remain in God’s Perfect Peace

 

Jesus told His followers in John 14:1 (NLT), “Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in me.” These weren’t light or casual words spoken in passing. Think about when He said this—right before His betrayal, suffering, and departure. The disciples could feel the weight of change in the air, and their hearts were unsettled with fear of what was coming. Jesus looked them in the eyes and spoke peace over their storm. These weren’t just comforting words to ease their nerves; they were a command backed by His authority. He was telling them, hold steady—don’t let fear take the wheel. His words were meant to anchor their souls, and ours too. Because life will hand us plenty of reasons to be shaken, but His voice cuts through the noise: trust in God, trust in Me. That trust is what keeps us grounded when everything else feels uncertain. 

Faith or Fear—The Two Responses

Life constantly demands a response, and at the root of it, every choice comes down to one of two things: faith or fear. Faith lifts us into God’s territory—where love, light, and life reign. Fear keeps us stuck in the enemy’s territory—where doubt, darkness, and death hold people hostage. That’s why Paul reminds us in 2 Corinthians 4:18 (NLT), “So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.” Faith changes where we set our eyes—it shifts us from the temporary to the eternal.

God hasn’t left us without a place to run when fear comes knocking. He has given us a shelter in Himself. Psalm 91:1 (NLT) promises, “Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty.” That means His presence is our safe place. Not the circumstances we try to control, not the systems we lean on, not the plans we scramble to hold together. Peace isn’t found in any of that. Peace is found in Him—in the shadow of the Almighty, where fear loses its grip and faith finds its rest.

The Peace That Guards 

Worry is the world’s default setting. It’s what people slip into when life feels uncertain. But God offers us a better way. Philippians 4:6–7 (NLT) tells us, “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.” God isn’t asking us to figure it all out or hold it together; He’s asking us to bring it all to Him.

Peace doesn’t just happen—it’s a choice, and it flows from surrender. Jesus secured it for us at the cross, and it’s ours to walk in if we’ll lean on Him instead of on ourselves. Isaiah 26:3 (NLT) affirms this promise: “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!” Perfect peace isn’t fragile, and it isn’t circumstantial—it’s anchored in trust. It comes when our minds stop spinning and get focused on the One who holds all things together.

God’s peace isn’t weak or passive—it’s alive. It guards us, steadies us, and lifts us higher than fear ever could. When life feels shaky and uncertain, the call is simple but powerful: pray in faith, set your thoughts on Him, and stay rooted in the perfect peace only He can give.  

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“Remain in God’s Perfect Peace”, written by Kim for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2025. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, August 19, 2025

When It Seems to Be Slipping Away

 

What’s standing in the way of your joy right now? Jesus tells us in John 10:10 (NLT), “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” He came to give us more than survival—He came to give us abundance—more than we can imagine. What God accomplished and released through the ministry, sacrifice, and resurrection of Christ can’t be measured. It’s a treasure too magnificent for words. But Jesus informed us that the enemy works day and night to rob us of it. Though this is undeniable, all glory to God, it’s not the end of the story. The good news is Christ has already won the victory. The question for us? How do we hold on to what our Redeemer has given us when life feels like it’s slipping through our fingers?

Standing Firm in the Battle

Life feels like a battle—because sometimes, it really is. Our merciful Heavenly Father has equipped us to win it, no matter the situation or condition. Ephesians 6:11-13 (NLT) tells us to “Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil… Then after the battle you will still be standing firm.” This isn’t about fighting people or circumstances—they’re not our real enemies. It’s about resisting unseen forces of darkness that aim to weaken our faith. We can be confident that God has not left us defenseless.

Not By Our Own Strength

Romans 8:37 (NLT) reminds us, “No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us.” We stand, not in our own strength, but on the foundation of Jesus Christ, who is the living Word of God. The battles of this world are spiritual, and no earthly weapon can win them. In Ephesians 6:10 (NLT), Scripture calls us to be “strong in the Lord and in His mighty power.” This means we must trust the victory that has already been secured through Christ. This is our call—not to give up, but to stand clothed in His armor—truth, righteousness, peace, faith, and salvation.

The Hope We Have in Christ

When life seems to be slipping through our fingers—when we’re bombarded with so many issues that we can’t even catch our breath—there’s still hope. We have received God’s armor and so much more. Ephesians 1:3 (NLT) says, “All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ.”

So if today you're feeling like you’re losing your grip—on joy, on peace, on that thing you were sure God promised—just breathe. Don’t panic. You’re not empty-handed. You're not alone. You’ve been blessed with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms. That means strength when you're weak. Peace when your mind is spinning. Courage when you’re too tired to fight. Faith when doubt is loud.

This battle you're in? It's real. But so is the armor. So is the victory. And so is the love of a Savior who’s not pacing the floor in heaven wondering how to help you—He’s already made a way.

So hold on. Even if it’s not perfect. Even if all you’ve got left is a whispered prayer and a shaky hallelujah, God’s grace will meet you there. His glory will carry you through. And when the dust settles, you'll still be standing—wrapped in the power of Christ, held together by a love that never lets go.

You’re not slipping. You’re being upheld. ■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

 "When It Seems to be Slipping Away”, written by Kim for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2025. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Take It Easy, God Has It Covered

Jesus Christ said in John 16:33 (NLT), “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials...