Trusting God When You Cannot See What He Is Doing
Isaiah
30:18 (NIV)
"Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to
you; therefore he will rise up to show you compassion. For the LORD is a God of
justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!"
Waiting Can Reveal What Is in Our Hearts
There are things we carry in our hearts that weigh us down, and sometimes we don't recognize how deeply they have affected the way we think, make decisions, and respond to difficult circumstances. Fear can become so familiar that we call it wisdom. Trying to control everything can feel like being responsible. We can become accustomed to expecting the worst and call it being realistic. This is one reason God has given us the record of those who walked with Him before we came on the scene. Romans 15:4 tells us that the Scriptures were written to teach us and give us hope as we wait for God's promises to be fulfilled. The lives of those in the Old and New Testament show us people who trusted God and still struggled, made mistakes, became afraid, and sometimes tried to take matters into their own hands. Yet God continued to teach them, correct them, and strengthen their faith.
Abraham Had to Learn to Trust God
Abraham is one of the clearest examples we have of what it means to grow in our trust in God. He was seventy-five years old when God called him and promised to make him the father of a great nation, but Abraham was about one hundred years old when Isaac was born. That's a long time to hold on to a promise, especially when everything you can see tells you it isn't going to happen. Abraham believed God, but believing didn't mean that he never struggled with fear or doubt. There were times when he looked at his circumstances and responded to what he saw instead of what God had said. He misrepresented Sarah as his sister because he was afraid he would be killed because of her beauty, and Sarah eventually became so discouraged with waiting that she tried to bring God's promise to pass another way through Hagar. They had faith, but their faith had to grow. And I think that's something we need to understand. We can genuinely believe God and still have areas of our lives where we haven't learned to trust Him completely. The waiting has a way of exposing those places. What we do when we're afraid, when nothing seems to be changing, and when God's timing doesn't agree with ours can tell us a great deal about where we still need to grow in our trust in Him.
Fear Can Make Us Reach for Our Own Solutions
Fear has a way of convincing us that we have to do something, even when we don’t know what to do. Abraham and Sarah fell into this trap. Instead of trusting God to protect them, Abraham devised a plan that involved lying about Sarah being his wife. When Sarah became tired of waiting for the child God had promised, she came up with a plan of her own. We can read their record thousands of years later and clearly see where they went wrong, but it isn’t always so easy to recognize when we are doing the same thing. We pray and ask God for direction, but when the answer doesn’t come as quickly as we would like, we start trying to work things out ourselves.
Proverbs 3:5–6 (NLT) tells us, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his Will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.” Trusting God does not mean that we do nothing. It means that we seek His wisdom before we move and that we refuse to allow fear, desperation, loneliness, or impatience to make our decisions for us. This is especially important when we are dealing with circumstances that are harmful or dangerous. God does not require us to remain in danger to prove that we trust Him. We can seek help, tell the truth about what is happening, and take the necessary steps to protect ourselves while continuing to seek God for His wisdom and direction.
Our Confidence Must Be in God
Romans 4:20–21 (NLT) tells us that Abraham “never wavered in believing God’s promise” and that he became “fully convinced that God is able to do whatever he promises.” This was the faith of a man who had walked with God and learned some things about His faithfulness. Abraham’s confidence was no longer in what he could see or what he could figure out on his own. His confidence was in God. This is where our confidence must be as well. We should always be willing to examine ourselves before the Lord, and when the Holy Spirit reveals something in us that needs to change, we should be humble enough to receive His correction. But we must not make the mistake of believing that every hardship or prolonged difficulty in our lives is evidence that we haven’t had enough faith. God was faithful when Abraham was seventy-five, and He was still faithful when Abraham was one hundred. Hebrews 10:23 (NLT) tells us, “Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep his promise.” Our circumstances may change, and there may be times when we don’t understand what God is doing, but His character does not change.
Trust Him While You Wait
Isaiah 30:18 (NLT) says, “So the LORD must wait for you to come to him so he can show you his love and compassion. For the LORD is a faithful God. Blessed are those who wait for his help.” Waiting for God is not about sitting still while life falls apart around us. Neither is it about trying to manipulate circumstances until we get the outcome we want. It is about trusting God enough to seek Him, listen to Him, obey Him, and allow Him to lead us. There may be something He wants us to stop doing, something we need to confront, somewhere we need to go for help, or something within our own hearts that needs to change. We cannot decide ahead of time what His direction must look like. We simply have to be willing to follow it. God sees what we cannot see, He knows what we do not know, and He loves us far too much to leave us where we are. So while we wait, we keep seeking Him. We keep growing. We keep obeying. And most importantly, we keep our confidence in the One who has promised never to leave or forsake us.■
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