God has blessed each of us immeasurably. There are blessings we could never fully list or articulate, and they converge in such a simple but profound way that we woke up this morning with breath in our lungs. We have another opportunity to praise God and thank Him for His goodness.
Most of us recognize this, and we truly are thankful. And yet, many believers still feel unsatisfied. Some feel unfulfilled. There’s a quiet sense that something is missing, and we can’t quite put our finger on where or why that feeling exists. We want to know the exact book, chapter, and verse where God explains the why behind emptiness, loneliness, lack, numbness, sadness, and disappointment. We’ve been on this journey a long time, and still, joy feels hard to hold onto the way we see others do. So we ask, “Lord, what am I missing?”
Jesus Christ is the answer—we know this. But often, what’s missing isn’t who we know; it’s how deeply His life has been allowed to take root within us. Paul’s prayer reveals God’s desire for every believer in Ephesians 3:16–17 (NLT): “I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong.”
This passage points us straight to the condition of the soul. Roots deliver nourishment to the whole tree. God tells us our roots are meant to grow down into His love. But sometimes, without realizing it, roots grow into other things—distractions, habits, comforts, or pursuits that were never meant to sustain us. When that happens, God lovingly begins the process of pruning. And often, we’re so focused on those other attachments that we don’t recognize what He’s doing.
Moment by Moment
Jesus explains this process in John 15:2 (NLT): “He cuts off every branch of mine that doesn’t produce fruit, and he prunes the branches that do bear fruit so they will produce even more.” This is not a word of rejection. It’s a word of assurance. This isn’t a word of rejection—it’s a word of assurance. Pruning is not punishment; it’s proof of belonging. Only branches that are already connected to Him are pruned.
Our walk with God isn’t built in one big moment. It’s lived out in small, daily choices—choosing to remain in Christ, choosing to follow His Word, choosing obedience even when comfort feels easier. And sometimes, we don’t. Sometimes we choose ease over growth, pleasure over formation, or familiarity over surrender. When those choices go unchecked, they can quietly settle into patterns that limit the fruit God desires to produce through us.
God doesn’t want anything to remain in us that restricts life. So He sends signals—gentle alarms—to wake us up. These alarms are not punishment. They are mercy. They alert us to areas that need healing, surrender, or growth. Many of us are blind to the very things holding us back, and God, in His kindness, steps in to help us see.
The Alarms
We are spiritual beings living in a natural world. The world teaches us to ignore the inner life and dismiss spiritual solutions. But that is not the truth. Our faith in God’s love and power will not fail. Feelings of emptiness, restlessness, sadness, or disappointment are often signals that something deeper is being addressed by the Holy Spirit.
It’s easy to label these feelings as simply “feeling bad,” but sometimes they are invitations—signals that growth and promotion are near. When we respond by seeking God and remaining open to His direction, we often discover a depth of fulfillment we didn’t know was possible.
God is the Master Gardener. Pruning is not a one-time event; it’s a recurring part of our walk with Christ. Each season, something is refined so greater life can emerge. The feeling that something is missing may not be loss at all—it may be new growth preparing to break through.
Where True Fulfillment Is Found
Jesus says in John 15:5 (NLT): “Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.” When we don’t recognize the value of what Christ has already accomplished for us, the soul can feel hollow, even in the presence of blessing. But God does not leave us there. John 16:13 reminds us that the Holy Spirit guides us into all truth. As we yield to Him, He deepens our understanding, heals our inner places, and teaches us how to live from what Christ has already secured.
All that we need is found in Jesus Christ. As we ask God to reveal the depth of Christ’s sacrifice and trust Him to do His work within us, we discover that fulfillment doesn’t come from acquiring more—it comes from abiding more deeply. And there, our cups truly begin to overflow.
Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
“Lord, What Am I Missing?”, written for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2025. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.


