Tuesday, December 16, 2025

Lord, What Am I Missing?

God has blessed each of us immeasurably. There are blessings we couldn’t possibly enumerate or articulate, and these blessings converge upon us in such a way that we woke up this morning to see another day. We’ve got another opportunity to praise God and to thank Him for being so good to us. Most folks realize this, and we truly are thankful, but many of us are not satisfied. Some are unfulfilled. We feel like something is missing, and we can’t quite put our finger on where or why this feeling exists. We’d like to know the specific book, chapter, and verse where God addresses the ‘why’ of emptiness, loneliness, lack, numbness, sadness, and disappointment. We’ve been on this journey a while and still can’t capture joy and stay in it the way we see others do. You might be asking, “Lord, what am I missing?”

Jesus Christ is the answer, we know this for sure. The piece of missing information is often about how to tap into God’s Word in a way that causes us to feel the wholeness and fulfillment that Christ gives us. Paul’s prayer and God’s desire for each of us in Ephesians 3:16-17(NLT) is, “16 I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. 17 Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong.” This verse leads us to any answer we seek about the condition of our souls. Roots deliver nourishment to the whole tree. God tells us that our roots are supposed to grow down into His love, but sometimes, they also grow down into other things. When this happens, God begins the process of pruning us, and sometimes we’re so distracted with those other things, we don’t realize we’re being pruned.

Moment by Moment
In John 15:2(NLT), Jesus Christ tells us, “He cuts off every branch of mine that doesn’t produce fruit, and he prunes the branches that do bear fruit so they will produce even more.” God is a merciful and tender Father, and in this verse, Jesus Christ assures us that the pruning process is reserved for his branches that bear fruit. What does this mean for us? Our walk with God is a moment by moment reality. It’s a partnership based on the choices we make every moment of every day to be more like Jesus Christ and to be obedient to God’s Word. Sometimes, we make choices that are not based on God’s love but based on our own desire for pleasure. We nurture addictions and habit patterns that support our personal agenda rather than God’s agenda to grow us up in Christ.

When things that are harmful to our relationship with God sit too long without being addressed, they might become rooted in our hearts. God doesn’t want this to happen, so within His pruning process there are alarms that wake us up and warn us that it’s time to grow. He’s done this because you and I are very often blind to the things in our hearts that are keeping us from going higher. We give ourselves permission to continue behaviors that hinder us, and we don’t see how these things are preventing us from producing fruits. Understand that if something is preventing you from producing fruit, it’s preventing you from receiving the blessings that are tied to the fruit. Heavenly Father is extending help through His Holy Spirit, so that we will get rid of things that will not help us produce fruit.

The Alarms
We are spiritual beings having an earthly experience. Not only are we taught by the world to ignore the reality of our inner spirit-man, but the world tries to get us to believe that Jesus Christ isn’t the answer and that God’s spiritual solutions do not work. This is not the truth! Our faith in God’s love and power will not fail. Feeling that something is missing, as well as feelings of emptiness, loneliness, lack, numbness, sadness, and disappointment are very often calling cards for change. They are alarms that something within needs to be addressed spiritually, through the Lord Jesus Christ. It is so easy to label our soul’s alarm system as feeling bad, but we need to at least consider the possibility that it is a warning sign that promotion is near. If we begin to seek God for answers and have a willingness to obey His instruction and direction, we might find ourselves feeling more fulfilled and joyous than we ever thought possible.

God is the Master Gardener, and the pruning process is a necessary part of our walk as believers in the Lord Jesus Christ. When a gardener prunes, they cut away the dead parts so the whole branch can have blooms. This happens every season, and many of us have already received the alarm that the pruning season is upon us. Some of the things we’ve been holding too tightly will need to be cut off. We will always have pruning seasons, and they will continue throughout our entire existences. Heavenly Father helps us to be better and walk more closely to the example of Christ every day. The feeling that something is missing is very likely a bloom waiting to happen.

It must be abundantly clear to us that God gives us blessings according to our capacity to be thankful for them, and our capacity to be thankful for the blessing is dependent on our faith to receive them and our ability to adequately value their worth. Faith dictates that we know the value of what God has accomplished through Christ for our benefit. Not recognizing the value of his sacrifice will leave a hole in our hearts, and we need to seek God to fill it. John 16:13 tells us that God’s Holy Spirit will guide us into all truth. God’s Spirit will do this work within us, but we must give him permission. We must be willing to be led, and we must ask God to give us a heart for Jesus Christ. The Master said in John 15:5(NLT), “Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.” All that we need can be found in Jesus Christ. We must ask God to give us a revelation of the price paid for our sins, and have faith that Christ will fill our cups to overflowing. Then we will know the price of his sacrifice, and the healing we have because of it.●

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“Lord, What Am I Missing”, written for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2025. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, December 9, 2025

The Sound of A Gentle Whisper

 

1 Kings 19:11-13 (NLT)
11 "Go out and stand before me on the mountain," the LORD told him. And as Elijah stood there, the LORD passed by, and a mighty windstorm hit the mountain. It was such a terrible blast that the rocks were torn loose, but the LORD was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the LORD was not in the earthquake. 12 And after the earthquake there was a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire. And after the fire there was the sound of a gentle whisper. 13 When Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his cloak and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. And a voice said, "What are you doing here, Elijah?"

This record in 1 Kings 19 moves me every single time. Elijah’s story hits close because it mirrors how we act when life gets overwhelming. When pressure sits heavy, when stress piles up, when emotions get loud, we can forget the goodness, strength, and steady power of our God. And when we let our emotions drive the moment, we open the door for the enemy to chip away at our peace. Elijah knew Israel had broken covenant, torn down God’s altars, and rejected every warning heaven had given. He understood the connection between action and consequence, and he was right to feel the weight of what their sin meant. But Elijah was wrong about one thing: he assumed the behavior of people could somehow force God’s hand or interrupt God’s plans. Our feelings get loud, but they never outrank God’s sovereignty.

Elijah expected God to arrive with force. He braced himself for a dramatic display — something loud enough to match the chaos he was facing. But the Lord was not in the windstorm. He was not in the earthquake. He was not in the fire. God revealed Himself in a gentle whisper.

That moment teaches us something critical: God does not adjust His voice to our expectations. He refuses to be boxed in by our assumptions about how power should sound. His authority is not diminished by quietness. His voice does not need volume to carry weight.

The whisper required Elijah to stop, to still himself, and to pay attention. It demanded obedience, not reaction. And it exposed something true for us as well: God often speaks in a way that requires discipline to hear Him.

But many of us are surrounded by constant noise. Schedules dominate. Phones interrupt. People pull. Notifications demand. Responsibility never rests. The static of daily life grows so loud that the voice of heaven is crowded out — not because God is silent, but because we are distracted.

And then we wonder why clarity feels distant.

This is not something to ignore. It is something to correct.

Just this past week, life demanded my full attention in a way I didn’t plan for. A situation came up that required clarity, not reaction. It meant stopping what I was doing, setting aside my usual routine, and making deliberate room to think, listen, and respond wisely. At first, resistance surfaced — not because the moment wasn’t important, but because interruption exposes how attached we can be to our own pace.

That pause revealed something. The noise in my life wasn’t unavoidable; it was coming from everywhere I allowed constant access. I didn’t need to overhaul my life — I needed to lower the volume. I put my phone down. I stopped scrolling. I turned off the news. I let calls go to voicemail. And in that quiet, clarity returned. Space made room for direction. Stillness made room for wisdom.

And that’s the point. Hearing God rarely requires more effort. It requires fewer distractions.

Elijah didn’t find God in the wind, the earthquake, or the fire. He found Him in a whisper. That’s the lesson. God doesn’t need volume to establish His authority. He doesn’t need spectacle to prove He’s in control. He is a faithful, loving Father — and He often speaks in ways that draw us closer rather than drive us back. The question is not whether God is speaking, but whether we have quieted ourselves enough to hear Him. When we make room for God, when we still ourselves before Him, when we step away from the noise, His whisper becomes clear — unmistakable.

And in that whisper is everything we need.

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved. 

“The Sound of a Gentle Whisper”, written for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2025. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, December 2, 2025

Remain in God’s Perfect Peace

 
Joshua 1:9 Written across a beautiful abstract background


When Jesus Speaks Peace Into Troubled Hearts

Jesus knew that the time of His death was drawing near, and His disciples were troubled and confused about what was going to happen. He wanted to prepare them for what was coming so they wouldn’t be overwhelmed with fear or worry. In this moment, He told His followers in John 14:1 (NLT), “Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in me.”

The beauty of His words is overwhelming, especially when we remember that the depth of His unspeakable suffering was so close at hand. Just before this, He had revealed that one of His disciples would betray Him. This was shocking news to the others—they were confused and deeply troubled by the thought that someone so close to them could act in such a way.

Being so close to Him—walking, talking, and learning from Him—it must have been hard to swallow that one of their own had betrayal in his heart. Yet the Scriptures confirm it was true. Still, when they heard it from Jesus’ lips, and when He told them that He would soon be leaving them, it was almost too much to process. Their hearts were troubled, and they looked anxious.

Jesus noticed, because He fully knows our pain, both inward and outward. Their souls were troubled, and He told them not to let this happen. How tremendously comforting His words are! But we must not forget: the words of our Master are not suggestions. They are meant to stabilize us in times of stress so we will not be overtaken by the enemy’s distractions or his attempts to steal our joy.

The Two Realms Your Soul Lives In

Heavenly Father created life in a way that always demands a response, and whether we admit it or not, every response we make flows out of one of two realms: faith or fear. Faith pulls your soul into God’s atmosphere — the territory of love, light, liberty, and life. Fear drags the soul toward the enemy’s atmosphere — doubt, darkness, bondage, and death. Isaiah 26:3 (NLT) sheds light on this: “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!” God keeps us in perfect peace when trust leads the soul, but fear breaks that flow.

Some people think this is just a mindset, but Scripture tells us otherwise. The spiritual realm is more real than what we see. Second Corinthians 4:18 (NLT) reminds us, “For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.” The unseen world is the foundation of everything visible, everything eternal, everything God-designed, and everything you are becoming in Christ. That’s why your internal position matters — because your soul’s response chooses the territory you walk in.

Living Where Peace Actually Lives

God has already told us where peace can be found — in Him, not in circumstances. Psalm 91:1 (NLT) says, “Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty.” Rest is not random. Peace is not accidental. You don’t stumble into it — you stay where it lives.

But the soul doesn’t stay in peace by default. It has to be trained. Romans 8:6 (NLT) tells us, “Letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace.” This is why the mind must be renewed and the heart must be transformed. Peace isn’t weak; peace is warfare. It’s warfare because peace is what the enemy is always after. Every time you choose peace, you defeat a lie. Every time you stay in peace, you shut the enemy out. Peace isn’t passive — it’s the sign that your soul is submitted. Peace is the evidence that the Holy Spirit is leading your spirit, and your spirit is leading your soul. That’s the divine order God designed.

And truthfully, this is where many believers struggle. We love God, but we haven’t learned to remain in His atmosphere. We drift into fear, worry, and self-protection because the soul was programmed by life, not by truth. But the moment we return to His shelter, His peace meets us like a covering we didn’t even realize we lost.

Training the Soul to Refuse Worry

God doesn’t just suggest peace — He teaches us how to live in it. Philippians 4:6–7 (NLT) tells us, “6 Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. 7 Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.” Notice the flow:
No worry → prayer → peace → protection.

But let’s be honest. Some of us quietly think, How am I not supposed to worry when so much is happening in this world? But if you trace the origin of that mindset, you’ll notice it wasn’t born out of truth — it was born out of fear. Fear rehearses danger. Faith rehearses God. Psalm 112:7 (NLT) says, “They do not fear bad news; they confidently trust the Lord to care for them.”

Our Heavenly Father is not distant. He is not hesitant. He is not stingy with His help. Jeremiah 32:17 (NLT) tells us, “O Sovereign Lord! You made the heavens and earth by your strong hand and powerful arm. Nothing is too hard for you!” Fear whispers that God won’t come through. Faith reminds the soul that He always does.

Peace Is the Proof of Who’s Leading

Perfect peace is not a personality type. It’s not emotional denial. It’s the evidence of alignment — the soul resting under the leadership of your spirit, as it follows the Holy Spirit and rests in God. Isaiah 12:2 (NLT) tells us, “See, God has come to save me. I will trust in him and not be afraid. The Lord God is my strength and my song; he has given me victory.”

When the soul aligns with truth, peace rises. When the soul slips into fear, peace leaks. But either way, the presence or absence of peace is never random — it is the signal of where we are standing spiritually. And God is always inviting us back into His shelter, His provision, His rest.

His perfect peace is not fragile. It is not temporary.
It is your inheritance.
It is your atmosphere.
It is the evidence that your soul has come home.

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

 

“Remain in God’s Perfect Peace”, written for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2025. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Tuesday, November 25, 2025

When God Shows Up in the Middle of It All

 


We’re Facing Challenges We’ve Never Seen Before

Some of us are facing challenges we’ve never seen before. These days feel heavier, louder, and more complicated than anything we imagined we'd be navigating. And in moments like these, we want God to move in a way we’ve never witnessed. If you’re anything like me, you grew up hearing your mother or grandmother say, “Baby, God showed up and showed out for me.” Back then, we didn’t grasp the weight of those words. But now—after everything the enemy has tried to throw at us—we understand. We wouldn’t have made it this far without God’s hand holding us steady. He has kept us, walked us through storms, and brought us out with our minds intact. So this is not the time to shrink back. This is the moment to stand in who we know God to be and trust Him with our whole hearts.

Jesus Told Us the Walk Wouldn’t Be Easy

Jesus never sugar-coated what this walk would require. In John 15:19 (NLT), He tells the disciples, “I chose you to come out of the world, so it hates you.” Living for Christ is the most beautiful life there is, but it comes with a cost. Trials are part of the journey, but so is triumph. Every challenge becomes a doorway for God’s power to be revealed, and every storm we survive deepens our maturity as sons and daughters of God.

Storms Teach Us What Calm Seasons Never Could

There are revelations of God’s character that only come from walking through the fire. Paul prayed in Colossians 1:11 (NLT), “We also pray that you will be strengthened with all his glorious power so you will have all the endurance and patience you need.” Endurance and patience are not glamorous, but they are required. They stretch us. They grow us. They root us in trust. And they prepare us to become the person God created us to be. We are destined to reflect Christ from the inside out.

He Goes Before You and Stays With You

And whether you’re healing from a divorce, recovering from disappointment, or working through life’s unexpected detours, hear this clearly: God is with you in every step and every season. He said in Deuteronomy 31:6 (NLT), “The LORD your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you.” Then He repeats it again in Joshua 1:9 (NLT): “Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.” In the Old Testament, they were servants. But now, through Jesus Christ, we are God’s children—His very own. And there is never a moment when He turns His face away from His kids.

God teaches us the lessons of love with such tenderness. He never pushes us faster than our soul can grow. Many of us pray for blessings we’re not yet mature enough to steward, but He knows the places inside us that still need healing and wholeness. He’s strengthening our emotions, stretching our capacity, and preparing our hearts for the weight of what we’re asking Him for. And we can’t rush His process—because when we get ahead of the Holy Spirit, we step into disappointment instead of destiny. His timing isn’t punishment; it’s protection. And even when we misstep, He faithfully shows up to heal, restore, and realign us with His Will.

God Has Not Changed—He Still Shows Up and Shows Out

We are living in turbulent times, but God hasn’t changed—not His character, not His promises, not His love. He will show up for His people. He will show out on behalf of His sons and daughters. So let’s lean all the way in. Let’s trust Him deeply. Let’s hold our confidence in the One who still restores, still delivers, still promotes, and still brings His children through every storm with victory.

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

When God Shows Up in the Middle of It All”, written for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com© 2025. All rights reserved. All praise and honor to God through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

Lord, What Am I Missing?

God has blessed each of us immeasurably. There are blessings we couldn’t possibly enumerate or articulate, and these blessings converge upon...