Christ Will Rescue You

Tuesday, August 6, 2024

I Won’t Stop Trusting God

Life certainly presents its share of challenges, something I fully realized one evening when I had a painful argument with my now ex-husband. As usual, he was settled into his lounge chair when I came home from work, ready to pick a fight. Silence and avoidance might not seem like abuse, but when you're married and living together with children, it can be one of the most hurtful forms.

In times like these, I cling to the promise of Christ in John 16:33 (NLT): “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” This journey through life is often marked by trials and sorrows, especially in our most significant relationships. The hateful behaviors, passive aggression, and spitefulness can cut like a knife. Despite the trials, we can trust that God’s peace and strength will guide us through these storms, and He never fails.

As a communicator, I find it incredibly difficult to remain silent for long periods, so enduring my husband’s intentional silence was absolute torture. His refusal to speak was his way of punishing me for something he didn’t like. While I didn’t think much of it during our dating years, his behavior ultimately over-burdened our marriage. My opinions, our differences, and even the air I breathed seemed to annoy him at times. Rather than talking about it, he stopped speaking to me for months on end. Those were some of the loneliest times of my life. I wanted desperately to engage with my partner, but he seemed to value punishing me more than loving me. It ended up being a very dark place, and this is not want God wants for anyone.

James 1:2-3 (NLT) is a verse that really hits home: “Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.” True growth begins during challenging times. It’s through these trials that we learn to trust God. When in your heart you desire nothing more than to love and be loved by your spouse, being mistreated by them a spouse is shockingly hurtful. You ask the Lord, “How much more must I endure?” But it is precisely during these moments of testing that our faith is strengthened, and our relationship with God deepens.

In these moments of struggle, it can be helpful to remember that every trial is an opportunity for transformation. As we navigate the difficulties in our relationships and personal lives, we are invited to lean into God's grace and find strength in His promises. Each challenge can become a steppingstone towards greater endurance and understanding. Philippians 4:13 (NLT) reveals, “For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength,” By relying on God’s strength, we can face problems, disappointments, and stressful situations with greater resilience. He will light the path to greater blessings and hope if we resolve in our minds and hearts, “I won’t stop trusting God!” Through our faith in Him, we’ll discover that even in the midst of pain, God is with us, fueling our hope and renewal.

As we push through these tough times, remember that every struggle is a chance for growth and a step closer to something better. Each challenge helps us lean into God’s strength and rediscover the extent to which He’s empowered us through the Holy Spirit to overcome every obstacle. Keep pushing forward with faith, knowing that every trial is shaping you for greater things. Trust that God’s got your back, lighting the way even when the path seems unclear. These moments are building something amazing in you. In the end, you’ll come out stronger, clinging more tightly to God, and ready for the blessings that lie ahead. ■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

Tuesday, July 30, 2024

God’s Love is Your Refuge

When the person you love inflicts pain—whether physical or emotional—where do you turn for solace? In those moments of hurt and confusion, find refuge in God. Trust that His unwavering love will not falter. It is His love, grace, and mercy that will carry you through the darkest times. The psalmist encourages us in Psalms 34:8 (NLT) “Taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in him!” This verse invites us to personally experience the goodness of God and assures us that those who seek shelter in Him will find joy. While others may offer advice on how to trust God, the experience of faith is deeply personal and unique. It’s something you must witness and taste for yourself to truly understand.

Even the most seasoned Christians face challenges, but through steadfast trust in God, we find the strength to triumph over seemingly insurmountable obstacles. As Romans 8:37 (NLT) declares, “No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us.” The trials we endure are not without purpose; they often lead us to a deeper understanding of His love.

Many people, including myself, face struggles that can feel overwhelming. Yet, there is a more effective way to navigate these challenges without separating ourselves from faith in God’s love and His power to help us. No problem is too big for Him to solve, but our faith must be firmly anchored in Him. I’ve learned that clinging too tightly to fears or past hurts can stifle our spiritual and personal growth. We can become so engulfed in our disappointment that we lose sight of the path to redemption and renewal. By trusting in God's ability to guide us, we allow His grace to clear the way, helping us to overcome obstacles and find a path toward healing and transformation.

Faith in God opens our eyes to the light of Jesus Christ. Consider the promise of 1 Peter 5:7 (NLT), which says, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.” By letting go and placing your trust in God, you open yourself up to His transformative power. When you surrender your fears and hurts to Him, you allow His love to guide you toward a better tomorrow, one where His peace and grace can illuminate your path forward.

Often, what we’re missing is this very trust. The darkness of our situations can overwhelm our senses, leaving us feeling stuck and consumed by emotions and thoughts that cloud our clarity. We may feel disconnected, struggling with confusion and frustration. Yet, by turning our concerns over to God, we invite His light into our lives, clearing the way for healing and renewal.

It doesn’t happen overnight. Transformation and the strengthening of our relationship with God is a journey, and it takes time to see the fruits of our trust in Him. But He never leaves or forsakes us, and with each step forward, you are moving closer to the peace and clarity He promises. Remember, His love is your refuge, providing guidance and support even when the path seems unclear. Trust in His timing and allow His love to lead you. He will turn your disappointment into the breakthrough that you so deeply desire for your life. ■

Tuesday, July 23, 2024

A Collapsed House

In Job 1:18-19 (NLT), there’s this shocking moment where a messenger comes to Job with some heart-wrenching news: “Your sons and daughters were feasting in their oldest brother’s home. Suddenly, a powerful wind swept in from the wilderness and hit the house on all sides. The house collapsed, and all your children are dead. I am the only one who escaped to tell you.” Imagine the horror: a home reduced to rubble; children lost in an instant. It’s a nightmare that strikes right at the core of our sense of safety and stability.

When a home falls apart, it’s not just a physical collapse but an emotional one that shakes the foundation of our being. It also means a big hit to our sense of safety and stability. For many of us, this kind of disaster isn’t just a distant worry—it’s something we worry about all the time. Maybe your husband has threatened to leave, and you lie awake each night dreading the moment you come home to find their stuff gone. Or you might be juggling everything on your own, trying to take care of your family while feeling completely worn out. Bills keep piling up, and it feels like one more setback could be the tipping point that makes everything crumble. In these moments, you might feel like the “house” of your life is on the verge of collapse, much like Job’s home.

Whether it’s the fear of losing a loved one, the strain of being the sole provider, or the relentless pressure of mounting bills, these scenarios bring up the same deep-seated anxiety. Dealing with these challenges, we’re constantly trying to keep our lives from falling apart, feeling like we’re right on the edge of our own breakdown. But Proverbs 18:10 (NLT) reminds us, “The name of the Lord is a strong fortress; the godly run to him and are safe.” In these moments of overwhelming stress, we can find comfort and refuge in God. He’s our safe place, a stronghold that can help us weather any storm.

Admittedly, it can be challenging to believe this when you’ve been shouldering everything for those you love for so long. It’s easy to feel worn out and discouraged, especially when you’ve carried the weight of responsibilities, sacrifices, and fears on your own. At times, it may seem like there’s no end in sight, and the idea of finding refuge and strength can feel distant and unreal. Yet, even in the midst of exhaustion and frustration, God’s promises hold true.

When you’re overwhelmed and feel like you’ve reached your limit, remember that you’re not alone in this. Matthew 11:28 (NLT) offers a comforting invitation: “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.” Turning to God in these moments of struggle can bring renewed hope and strength, reminding us that there is a powerful source of support and comfort available, even when everything seems like it’s on the verge of collapse.

Our Heavenly Father doesn’t cause the painful situations in our lives, but He knows we will face them. 2 Peter 2:9 (NLT) tells us, “So you see, the Lord knows how to rescue godly people from their trials, even while keeping the wicked under punishment until the day of final judgment.” This means that, even in our most challenging moments, God is fully aware of our struggles. He has the power to transform our difficulties into opportunities for growth and beauty. All power is in His hands, and He is both willing and able to guide us through our trials, turning what seems like rubble into something stronger and more magnificent.■