“For the Kingdom of God is
not just a lot of talk; it is living by God’s power.”
1Corinthians 4:20 (NLT)
“Something isn’t right in my life. I’m raising my kids
on my own, they are acting out and every time I talk to my family, they’re
always blaming me.”
For
every choice and decision that we make in life, there is a consequence. Whether
those choices and decisions are good or bad, the results will come back to us
in the form of something we like or something we don’t like. This is God’s law,
and it is immutable; it will not fail, and we can’t change it. Considering
this, the most beneficial thing that any of us can do for ourselves is to be
like Christ and think good thoughts, feel good feelings, speak good words, and
do good things. Through the Apostle Paul, God says it best in Philippians
4:8(NLT), “And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your
thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and
admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.”
Either
because we don’t know God’s laws, or we slipped up and violated them,
sometimes, we fall. We make a wrong choice or decision, and it takes us really
far from the path of God’s righteousness and blessings. We might do something
that nowhere resembles the kind of person we know we should be. As a believer
of Jesus Christ, we might feel remorse for our wrong or poor choices, and
that’s how we’re supposed to feel. If we do something that offends the Lord,
our hearts should be convicted, it shows that the Spirit is working within us.
But we shouldn’t remain in that place of remorse. Through the goodness, mercy,
and grace of God, we have the solution through our Lord and Savior, Jesus
Christ! It is to repent and ask God for forgiveness. 1John 1:19(NIV) tells us, “If
we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and
purify us from all unrighteousness.”
God
knows we are going to make mistakes, and He doesn’t stop loving us when we do.
He has given us His Word so we can correct ourselves and get back on the path
of His righteousness and blessings. When we don’t repent for thinking the wrong
thoughts, feeling the wrong feelings, speaking the wrong words, and doing wrong
deeds, we are still in the cycle of sin, where those wrong things keep cycling
back to us. Jesus Christ gave his life on the cross to get us out of this kind
of bondage. He showed us the way to live a more than abundant life, and it
begins with repentance.
The
devil bombards us with negativity and consequences to keep us from repenting,
because the devil doesn’t want our relationship with God restored. To repent is
to recognize we’ve been doing the wrong things and then to stop doing them.
Repentance is a change of behavior. It is to wake up and realize that we have
been given the power and authority of Christ to overcome. This is what God
means when He tells us in Ephesians 4:23 to renew our minds, and in Colossians
3:10(NLT), when He tells us, “Put on your new nature, and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator
and become like him.” As children of God’s Kingdom, we can live by His
power. We can overcome any situation by knowing His Word and walking in the
example of Christ.
It
can be very discouraging when we constantly find ourselves repeating the same
kind of sins that we swore to God we would never do again. If we remain stuck
in feeling bad, we are stuck in condemnation, and this condemnation makes us
continually feel sad and unworthy. It’s a cycle of reacting to our mistakes,
not by correcting them through Jesus Christ, but with the self-punishment of
continuing to feel bad. That’s condemnation. Repentance is recognizing the
wrong action and correcting it. It’s not God’s Will that we let sadness and
unworthiness takeover our lives. It’s His Will that we overcome the actions and
behaviors that caused our trouble so that we can overcome them through Jesus
Christ.
After
my divorce from an abusive marriage, I felt sadness and shame. I felt
condemned. I have no doubt that God wanted me and my child to be safe, but I
still blamed myself in certain ways and regretted the choices I made. I had to
seek God’s forgiveness for not knowing His Word to the degree that I could
have, so that I could make wiser choices. None of us are perfect, and there are
thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that lead us down the wrong paths and cause
us to choose unwisely. Beating ourselves up and feeling bad isn’t the answer.
The answer is growing in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, so
that we can stay on the path of making good choices and decisions that please
God. ■
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“Feeling Bad and Beating
Yourself Up Isn’t the Answer”, written by Kim for https://rescuefromdomesticviolence.blogspot.com©
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